I recently attended another Mental Health and Addiction Conference. As I drove home I admired the beauty of the Autumn leaves. I could feel the warmth from the sun through the windshield. I reflected on the people that I met at the conference and the stories they told. I smiled as I imagined myself sharing my stories at an upcoming event. My heart is full. I enjoyed meeting so many people who are focused and dedicated to helping others through some of the most incredibly challenging times in their lives. How marvelous to be among these people! These are my kind of people! I feel like I have found where I belong, I finally found my tribe!
I never had many career goals. All I ever wanted was a family that loved me. Grateful that God gave me a wonderful family, but I was somewhat unfulfilled once my children were grown. I longed to be part of a community. I longed for people who cared about others and wanted to be part of the solution. These people epitomized what I needed in a community. I felt like I actually belonged amidst them. A eureka moment for me. I am worthy and I matter. That’s what it means to be healthy and love oneself. A new feeling for me, and I like it!
I spoke to many people and shared that I had recently published my memoir, Dance of the Dragonfly. I inquired about any lived experience storytelling opportunities and handed out bookmarks with my contact information. The response from them was incredible. I felt welcomed by everyone at the event. I used to dread networking, but I think I actually made some new friends by stepping out of my comfort zone. While it can be intimidating, in the end it is very rewarding when you complete the challenge.
I am eager for next year's Mental Health and Addiction Conference at the Kalahari. Seeing familiar faces and making new friends brings me immense joy. Challenging myself to continue to pursue my goals of ending stigma and shame surrounding mental health and addiction. I am determined to continue to work on becoming the best person I can be with the time I have left on this planet. I no longer take life for granted. I embrace everyday and remember to thank God for keeping alive for one more day!
How will you make the most of your day? Have you discovered your passion or purpose in life? Drop me a note in the comments. I’d love to hear your story! Namaste!